When it comes to offering advice to the lovelorn, classics professor Michael Fontaine thinks some of the best wisdom comes from looking backβway back.
In his latest book, “How to Get Over a Breakup: An Ancient Guide to Moving On,” Fontaine translates, from the Latin, 2,000-year-old romance tips from the Roman poet Ovid, whose suggestions range from heartfelt to humorous and downright raunchy.
Says Fontaine: βThereβs some actionable advice, some stuff thatβs questionable, and some stuff that canβt possibly be taken seriously.β
Some of Ovidβs wisdom echoes the common-sense advice youβd get from your besties after a romantic reversal: staying busy, taking up a new hobby, going on vacation, and (in the poetβs words) βminimizing and belittling your exβs best features.β
Even the most broken-hearted readers, however, will likely decline another of Ovidβs tips: putting your lost love out of your mind by going off to war.
βOvid is known as the biggest jerk in all of antiquity,β Fontaine says with a laugh.
βBut he was as clever as anybody who has ever lived, and wrote hilarious poetry.β
The book is the latest entryβand the fourth by Fontaineβin Princeton University Pressβs βAncient Wisdom for Modern Readersβ series, which packages advice from the classical world on a variety of topics.
This image taken by NASAβs Mars Reconnaissance Orbiter shows ice sheets at Marsβ south pole.
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